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Evil Dead, The (1981)
IMDB rating: 7.50
Plot: Five friends go up to a cabin in the woods where they find unspeakable evil lurking in the forest. They find the Necronomicon and the taped translation of the text. Once the tape is played, the evil is released. One by one, the teens become deadly zombies. With only one remaining, it is up to him to survive the night and battle the evil dead.
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Directors: Raimi Sam
Actors: Campbell Bruce,DeManincor Richard,Gillis Philip A.,Horton David,Thomas Wendall,Long Don,Smith Stu,Fantasy,Horror,Thriller,
Is my marriage dead? I'm only 20 something.. My husband is useless and disgusting.?
I’ve been married with him for 2 years. Right now our biggest problem is finance. I’m going to school, and my family is funding me. I moved to the states since 2008. The past 2 years here in the states, my husband couldn’t find any sort of jobs.(well, he says he can’t, but I just don’t even see him trying) Honestly, I’m from a developing country, where my family is considered as the middle class. Here in USA, for sure I’m not. He’s from here, but he spent most of his adult life abroad. I just turned 20, he’s turning 30 in 2 years. I’m earning my BA degree while he stays home and does nothing, not even help a bit with cleaning. He didn’t finish his BA when he was in school, and this is his biggest excuse for not finding a job. I see it as he is getting used to the lifestyle, which is always getting enough money from my family. I suggested him to go back to school and try to finish his degree, but he said he can’t, because his family is unlike mine, they won’t pay for his education. The money I spent in the past 2 years could get me a small house here. I start to get confused, what am I doing? I feel like his family doesn’t care about him. If I kick him out from the apartment he’ll have no where to go and no food to eat. He basically didn’t make any close friends since we’re in the states. My family pay for his entertainment, his food, his car, basically everything he owns are from my family.
Every time I come back from school I see a fatty sitting in from of the computer and watching stuff. He gained 30 pounds while I lost 10 pounds.. I can’t say that I am doing the right thing, because I’m supposed to be working too. I’ve been taking a lot of courses in one semester so that I can finish school asap. My marriage is really dragging me to hell. I recently discovered that he cheated on me many times when we just got together, and he’s keeping a lot of sex videos and pictures which I’m not cool with. I understand it’s personal stuff, but he even had his personal show to exhibit all the images and videos.. His parents know about that but no one told me!!! His face disgusts me, and sometimes I even wish him to have an accident.. His family has been very unfortunate, my uncle in law and grandmother in law passed away. I understand he had to go visit a lot, and go attend the funerals, but I’m not cool with paying for his travel expenses like 1000 bucks each trip. Gosh I am not a ATM!!! I wonder how he spend those money!!
My marriage is turning me into an evil person. Right now I have a chance to go back to my country to visit my family, but he wants to go with. I really don’t want to pay for any of his expenses, and so I just gave up the chance of going back. I don’t understand why I am doing this. We don’t have a kid, and why I am the one who is responsible for him? Just because we’re married?? I’m only 20!! Why should I be?? I gave up all my entertainments, or shopping or any other kinds of expenses to be able to spend less while he spends too much. I think he really thinks my family is a bank now. but they’re really not. I hate my marriage.
Oh and, believe me. Except me he’s really got nobody to count on. Once we had a fight, and I asked each single member of his family if he could stay with them over night. All of them said no. How can they be so cold blooded???
Yes, it is. Don’t feel guilty. Just leave.
crazy8eddie | Feb 02, 2010
If all else fails, then get divorce papers ready… Go stay with a Girlfriend or family member for a bit and stay away from him.
Briana | Feb 02, 2010
It really says something when a person’s own family doesn’t want them, speaks volumes about who they are. His family is probably tired of him, and have a good reason and now your stuck with the looser. Your way to young to be tied down to a man who has no ambition and the longer you support him the worse its going to be. Your not responsible for him, but in the event of a divorce depending on what state you live in, if you had a great job you might end up having to pay him alimony since he is not employed. you need to get rid of the looser now before you get that good job and begin making money because men like him just suck you dry emotionally and financially.
jude | Feb 02, 2010
Welcome to the free world . You ain’t seen nothing yet baby .
Lumpmasters | Feb 02, 2010
…Sad story. People say to leave but I think you should make sure that he got somewhere to stay. It is kinda weird that you didn’t know about his family before you get married but that is not the point. Since you said that he uses the computer than get rid of the internet and things that he use a lot and than tell him that he has a couple months to get a job or the divorce papers are coming and he will live out in the cold. I know it is mean but it is for you two life. The reason for marriage is commitment. If he has he cheats on you than whats the point of marriage. Just think about purpose of marriage. You are only 20 and you have no kids so there is no sad children and you can still easily find a nicer guy. Don’t forget that there may be another option. Nobody know about the whole thing except you
Nuriya Lunar | Feb 02, 2010
From my point of view,and I don’t mean to offend you and your ways throughout my answer.I just think in a way he is taking advantage of this situation(the fact that your family is paying for everything) And well he just sits back and relax.You seem to be going in the right path with college, and I myself in you situation wouldn’t let a marriage get in the way of your success.Your young,you have a whole life ahead,don’t waste it on someone that doesn’t seem to be appreciating you as you should.
I would off being divorce by now, though if love is your issue with not making that decision, I would tell your husband, to get his butt out of the couch and work, unless he wants to divorce and he could find another maid to do his stuff.Plus he cheated and has sex videos without telling you.That’s just wrong.
His family in the other hand, I think they see the type of guy he is and just don’t want to be involve in the problem and really don’t care.Move on with your life,even if it hurts leaving him, though he doesn’t seem worth to try anything more.
I wish you luck with your success and life 
Take Care
Message if anything else
Kathy | Feb 02, 2010
you should just try and find a better mate
Elwood | Feb 02, 2010
his family isn’t cold blooded they know what he is
they dont want him to be a parasite on them as he is on you
they are smart
next time you go HOME say the are only sending one fare you can come but you will have to earn the money
honestly he is useless why is it your problem he will have no where to live, he wont help himself fine not your problem, get rid of the looser be hard hearted like his family
they know you cant be Nice to him as he will never leave
your marriage is over , it cant recover from this
give him a talk say you have one month to get a job or your out
he will have excuses then say i will not solve these problems for you , you are an adult you solve them
one month a job or your gone
and yes it is his fault when he says it isn’t
Lordpercywooster XXV | Feb 02, 2010
People can tell you to leave him all day long and it doesn’t really matter until you finally decide to do it. If you’re going to get a divorce, do it now. You’ve got no reasons tying you to this man and you can get out before something happens (like accidental children), then you’re stuck with him for life.
Give him some money for a month or two (so he has somewhere to live food/etc) and send him on his way. He can get a job anywhere for money until he can find a better one. He is physically able to support himself financially so I wouldn’t worry.
Fizzy ? | Feb 02, 2010
Honey, you have NO reason to stay w/this useless "man". He’s doing absolutely nothing to attempt to help you out, yet you’re footing ALL the bills for EVERYTHING. It’s time he grew up & got responsible for himself. You’re rite, you nor your family should support him & you have NO reason to since he’s not even attempting to. Even his own family refuses to help him in any way. What does that tell you! They KNOW who he is, what he is. He’s nothing but a moocher & is taking advantage of you. No, don’t do it anymore. You’re not his mother, you do not have to take care of him it’s NOT your responsibility. IF he was even trying that would be a different story. But then why should he when he KNOWS you’ll take care of him. Get away from him, you do not "need" him for any reason. You’re far too young to be bringing up a 28 yr. old child! If you’re not there to take care of him, he’s going to have to do something to take care of himself. This is the ONLY way he’s going to learn. Get out of a marriage you hate. You just got involved w/the wrong person. There is a rite person out there for you, you just have not met him yet. Make yourself FREE so you can live a decent life you’ve set out to do & are working on making it happen. You deserve better. Don’t accept the unacceptable. Leave him & he’ll be forced to grow up & take care of himself. You don’t owe him a single thing. Take care of YOU, you deserve it so DO IT…the best to you…:)
Sue C | Feb 02, 2010
i was too slow. and i was literally out of breathe after ONE lap.
